RE: A New Start For Me - And Mental Health Awareness

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Yes that is a good idea. Removes a bit of negativity out of the feelings. Thank you. :)



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I'm certain you noticed a subtle change within, almost instantly. One doesn't learn much from suffering. Life is all about gaining experience. Most experience comes with some form of a challenge. And even the best fighters don't win every round. Win some, lose some; still a fighter. Gain experience; know better for next time. Never truly defeated. Best fighters all take a rest. They all pace themselves. One doesn't need to push themselves in order to win. But now I'm starting to sound like a lame-ass meme. Better stop that...

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Yes that´s absolutely right. And these subtle changes are important and keep our head above water.
You are right about the fighter. As a perfectionist I still need to learn not to be so hard on myself. And that "losing" is also ok and brings me further.
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That perfectionism stuff can be tough. I tend to leave that one alone and lean more towards chaos, which isn't for everyone either, but there is healthy place in the middle somewhere one can balance on. People focus on buffing out their flaws; most of the time others don't even notice those flaws.

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I see. Yes finding the middle is the healthiest but probably also the hardest. :D
That is also true. We look to much at our own flaws. Think about it too much and others don´t even notice...

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Yup. And trying to find that balance beam while in the dark just adds another layer of complexity.

Thanks for bringing this up. Stumbled into out of nowhere and it gave me a chance to think. Kudos.

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So true.
Thank you for supporting and happy to give you a bump to start thinking. :) !PIZZA

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